5 Fun and Cozy Fall Date Ideas

Fall is my favorite time of year. I love the colors, the smells, the crispness in the air, and the sense of magic that starts to permeate everything. In a lot of ways, it brings out the little kid in me and I love sharing that magic and excitement with my husband, Chris. We are always trying to think up fun, unique fall date ideas. Here are some ideas we've enjoyed through the years.

My Favorite Fall Dates

1. Journey through a corn maze.

One of my favorite fall traditions is heading out to a corn maze—there’s just something so nostalgic and playful about getting lost together in the stalks. Many corn mazes start opening in late summer and stay open well into the fall.

If you’re near Northeast Oklahoma, a short drive up to Kansas offers plenty of charming options. Chris and I love making a full day of it—stopping in little towns along the way for coffee, antiques, or a cozy lunch spot. And if you're up for a little thrill, try a nighttime "haunted" corn maze. Getting spooked (and laughing about it afterward) adds a whole new level of fun.

2. Grab a coffee and take a drive to see fall foliage.

One of the best parts of fall, in my opinion, is soaking in the colors as the leaves change. I always keep an eye on fall foliage maps—many states have websites that show when the colors are expected to peak and where to find the most vibrant views. It’s such a fun excuse to plan a little getaway and be reminded of just how beautiful this season can be.

If you're in the Tulsa area like we are, a day trip to Arkansas is a perfect fall escape. Chris and I love heading to spots like Mount Magazine State Park—it’s absolutely stunning in October. The scenic overlooks are breathtaking, and the hiking trails give us a chance to slow down, talk, and just enjoy being outdoors together. It's a peaceful way to reconnect—with nature and with each other.

3. Explore a local historic site.

Chris and I love finding creative ways to mix our love of history with a little seasonal fun—and fall is the perfect time for it. Many historic sites host autumn festivals or Halloween-themed ghost tours, giving you a chance to experience the past in a more immersive (and sometimes spooky!) way. One of our favorites is the candlelit tour at the George M. Murrell Home in Park Hill, Oklahoma. It’s the perfect blend of storytelling, local history, and just enough eerie ambiance to give you goosebumps. They even serve hot apple cider at the end, which makes it feel like the perfect fall date night. It’s such a fun way to leave reality behind for a bit and step into a different time—just with a spooky twist.

4. Visit a pumpkin patch.

To me, nothing says fall quite like a pumpkin patch and a hayride. Chris and I love wandering hand-in-hand through rows of pumpkins, soaking in the crisp air and simple joy of the season. There's something so nostalgic about sipping warm cider on a bumpy hayride, wrapped in a blanket and just being in the moment together.

We like to make it a little playful—competing to see who can find the biggest pumpkin or the most oddly shaped one (Chris usually wins on “most unique”). Once we’re back home, we’ll either carve them side by side or break out the paints for a more creative, less messy twist. It’s one of those traditions that feels lighthearted and fun but also leaves you with sweet memories—and maybe a few pumpkin seeds to roast together later.

5. Have a bonfire night.

One of my favorite ways to slow down in the fall is spending an evening around a crackling fire. There’s just something so timeless and romantic about it—crisp air, leaves crunching underfoot, and that cozy mix of warmth and quiet that invites you to truly be present.

Chris and I love bundling up in our flannels, grabbing a stack of blankets, and heading outside to our little fire pit in the backyard. We’ll string up a few twinkle lights, set out some chairs, and pull them close so we can share a blanket and sip something warm.

There’s a kind of magic in the flicker of firelight and the scent of wood smoke drifting through the cool air. We’ll roast s’mores, laugh about nothing in particular, or sometimes just sit in silence and look up at the stars. It’s simple, but those moments feel rich—like we’ve stepped out of the rush of life and into something sacred. Just us, the night sky, and the quiet comfort of being together.

Your Relationship Prescription

This fall, take action to reconnect with your partner by planning fun, unique dates that bring you closer. Escape the daily stress and create new memories—go for a hike, visit a pumpkin patch, or enjoy cozy fall movie nights together.

Be fully present in these moments, leaving distractions like phones or work behind. Embrace the fun and laughter to strengthen your bond and keep the excitement alive in your relationship.