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Frosty Romance: Cool Winter Dates to Warm Your Hearts

  • Writer: Dr. Teresa Edwards, LMFT
    Dr. Teresa Edwards, LMFT
  • Jan 2, 2023
  • 3 min read

Updated: Mar 20

Welcome winter! Winter brings to mind Jack Frost, cozy sweaters, hot chocolate, and warm fires. Winter, with its glistening frost and magical ambiance, offers the perfect backdrop to forge new memories or reminisce about cherished ones. So, bundle up and let the magic of these winter dates illuminate the season with love and companionship.


1. Enjoy an outside movie date night.

Picture a romantic winter evening, where the chill in the air is kept at bay with the warmth of shared blankets and the glow from fairy lights. This is the perfect time to light the chimenea, or a fire pit, find a couple of lawn chairs, a fluffy blanket, and your tablet to watch a movie outside. Make a thermos of hot chocolate or coffee, grab some cookies, make s'mores, and enjoy the evening.


Couple having a winter date night.  Man pushing joyful woman on sled on an outdoor ice rink, both in winter clothing.

2. Take a twirl on the ice.

Embark on the adventure of gliding hand in hand across the glistening surface of an ice skating rink. For many, ice skating is a beloved winter tradition. A lot of towns create ice skating rinks for the winter months. This can be a fun experience for couples and a great way to create memories.


Regardless of your skill level, the shared adventure of navigating the ice together creates a sense of connection and camaraderie, making ice skating not just an ideal date night idea but a romantic journey into the heart of winter.

A winter indoor date night: Cozy scene of feet in knit slippers and socks by a roaring fireplace. Two mugs and a bowl of popcorn add warmth and relaxation.

3. Travel down memory lane.

Want to escape the cold and wind for the cozy comfort of a warm fire, soft blankets, and hot chocolate? Use this time to cozy up and take a trip down memory lane. This trip requires no tickets or passports, but can take you to some of your favorite places.


As you settle in, share stories from the past—remember those memorable moments and revisit the milestones that shaped your journey together. You could flip through old photo albums or watch home movies, letting those pictures take you back to a favorite place or a cherished memory. Reliving those shared experiences can really bring you closer and help you appreciate all the moments you’ve shared as a couple.


4. Have a themed movie night.

Transform an ordinary movie night into an immersive experience with ambiance, outfits, and foods that fit the movie theme. Pick a theme that both of you will enjoy—whether it’s a favorite genre, era, or movie series. Here are some fun ideas to get you started...


For a classic western experience, think "Rio Bravo," "Tombstone," or "The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly." Dress in western clothes and serve up food like what Cookie would’ve handed out from the chuckwagon—beans, biscuits, beef jerky, trail mix, dried fruit, coffee, and, of course, some sassafras (root beer). Want to make it even more immersive? Turn off the lights and light some candles or an oil lamp (just make sure it’s odorless and soot-free!).


Not feeling the wild west? How about a Victorian England theme with films like "Great Expectations," "Sherlock Holmes," or "Jane Eyre"? Dress up in Victorian-style clothes and enjoy traditional foods like cheese, chestnuts, hazelnuts, fruit turnovers, and tea with biscuits (cookies). Feeling extra adventurous? Try your hand at a Victorian pudding or meat pie recipe for the full experience!


Your Relationship Prescription

This winter, spice up your relationship by planning fun, cozy dates that bring you and your partner closer. Whether it's ice skating, baking treats together, or curling up with a good book, these activities help you escape the winter chill and focus on building connection.


Make the most of the season by being present, enjoying each other's company, and creating memories that will keep the warmth alive in your relationship. Don’t let the cold weather get in the way—embrace it and use it as a reason to grow closer.





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